My T is honest with me but she has never been confrontational. She has also never really had to point out any negative thought patterns or behavioral issues; that isnt something I struggle with. She did, however, express concern a few years ago when I-- briefly-- rekindled a relationship with my ex. She made it clear that she didn't think it was in my best interests-- and, honestly, I didn't disagree.I knew it was "dumb" but it was a fun month or two, which is what I wanted at the time! So what my T said didn't hurt my feelings. She also didn't question my judgment-- she just asked me to explain what I was looking for and why. After I gave her my answer, she said "okay" and continued to let me handle my choices on my own.