((((((((((( biiv )))))))))))))

I'm so sorry you're having such a bad time right now. From the sound of things, I wouldn't say anything to your Dad yet. It sounds as if both of you are not ready for it. If your Mom wants to tell him something, let her do it.

Everyone is nervous about surgery, but honestly it's not bad. When you wake up there will be a nurse there with you. They will have you in warm blankets. If you are in pain, they will give you something in your IV that will make the pain go away and let you sleep a while. You might feel groggy depending on what type of anesthesia they use. Things have changed so much. It's not like it used to be. It's so much easier now.

I am praying and sending good thoughts your way.

Hugs,

Jan