I married a man that I have had a crush on since I was 13, I am now 38. He was always a kind and sweet person. He seemed so happy at first because we have liked each other for so long it was like we were finally living our dream. His behavior went from sweet to horrible, screaming at me and even threatening a pet of mine. I am still in a state of shock! I made him leave. he was also doing things to keep me from sleeping at night like arguing all nights sometimes......it was a living hell.