I never really used to experience my T's other sessions "from the outside." Most times, no one is there when I get there (she leaves 10 minutes in between sessions, and I usually get there maybe a minute early), and due to my session time and other responsibilities in her life, there has NEVER been anyone after me.
But my son is now in therapy, with a man who works in the same suite. I liked him from the get-go, so when my son showed a desire in going to therapy, and I started noticing some bad attitudes/acting out, I consulted this guy about seeing my son, and also asked my T her thoughts on it.
My sessions are relatively quiet. Voices fairly quiet, no laughing or joking really.....quite boring, I'm sure. But now I hear other sessions. Not words, just voice volume, laughing, etc...like they're having fun in there. It makes me think of what a horrible bore I must be. I'm thankful she has sessions like that to "counteract" people like me, but jeez, it makes me feel bad. Not that I want that, just that I'm not fun like that. You know? Anyone else ever made notice of something similar?
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