I went to visit my college a few times to visit a few people, including a couple friends. But each time after my visit, one person would tell me the other person does not want me there. So I will go ask the other person to see what is wrong and that person will say that is not true and that it is the first person who does not want me there. They talk about each other behind each other's back, as well as other people. Although the guy is actually worse than the girl. I told them they are under no obligation to hang out with me and I go to visit other people, not just them and it is not like I am there a lot. Something tells me they actually both don't want me there but are too afraid to own up to it even though they deny it. Like they are lying and telling the truth. The truth would be that the other person does not want me there but the lie would be that the person does not want me there him or herself as well. I am considering not visiting them. And they know backstabbing is wrong, yet hang out with each other anyway even though they know the other person talks **** behind their backs. I feel like they both don't want me there. Do you think it is true? They claim to be friends but they really aren't since real friends do not back stab each other the way they do it. As well as doing it to others.