Both of mine have their offices set up so it's difficult to hear how another session is going. I often hear No. 1's last words to the couple who are usually before me when she opens her door, and she never sounds like she's enjoying talking to them. (They don't look that enjoyable to talk to anyway.) With the rest of us, she's usually much more cheerful saying hello and goodbye.

And at No. 2's, I have heard a client screaming at a therapist - not sure whether it was her or one of her office mates, but it was LOUD to get through two doors. So I figure at least I'm not doing that.

But why does it matter? If you're paying someone, bore them as much as you like. You are who you are, and you're there for what you're there for. Maybe as time goes by you'll relax more and be more "fun." But why pressure/feel bad about yourself?