An anecdote to all of this...

I convinced my husband to talk to a therapist to learn coping mechanisms on dealing with my PTSD 'crazies'.

I was APPALLED that she told him it's ridiculous to expect him to adapt to living with me. Basically, her assessment was that it was my responsibility to learn to control my PTSD symptoms.

To say that she made things ten times worse is an understatement...