I have tried writing him twice - asking him outright a few times what I did and never got any responses. I remember my stepmom once sat me down when I was 16 n said "i know they sometimes don't treat you well but you have to understand, you are lucky - your mom died, their dad lives with another woman in another house." I said "they get to see their dad, I can't see my mom n my dad lives with another woman in another house too." She said "but at least your dad lives with you, theirs doesn't " and with that she got up n left.

I keep hoping my son n I will connect too but that really doesn't help me atm, it just hurts that we haven't.