My husband whom I recently separated from because of behavior that was mentally abusive is willing to have an evaluation and go to therapy in an attempt to save our marriage. My question is.....is it possible for a person who is controlling and manipulative to change with therapy? Am I just kidding myself to think that maybe this could help him? My heart aches for the life I wanted with him. It confuses me that someone who once was so kind is now bad enough to ask to leave our home......Also he has suffered many head concussions in his life and with that movie that is out now staring Will Smith called concussion I wonder if that isn't the catalyst for his strange behavior.