I know what you mean about someone being evasive but I have noticed that a lot of guys who use the dating site would rather have you text their cell or call them. They don't seem to like to say much at the site. Some sites will tell you if they cannot connect with you at the dating site that may be a red flag. He has written me again at the site and asked how I was feeling. I told him not good. I'm lying like crazy. He asked me previously if I wanted to stay out late with him. That would mean using my car probably and I don't know him well enough to let him in my car. Just seems to me like he is kind of nice but he doesn't respect boundaries very much. I guess I'll just have to lay down some boundaries for him and if he doesn't like it he's gone.