Hi Runs with the eagle.

I agree with lowinmood...everyday banter is simply a way of establishing that ..'Hey, I'm ok, and you're ok too' Shared interests and connections evolve when we dig a bit deeper and gain trust.

Compartmentalising areas of our lives is one way to deal with multiple stresses...a stategy that helps us focus on certain areas of our lives without instrusive worrying. Definately a strategy that has worked for me in the past

College should be a wonderful time in ones life, a time to discover who we are and who we want to become. Maybe connecting with a campus counsellor would help give you some breathing space Runs with the eagle, he/she will keep anything you need to talk through confidential. They are there to assist and support all students.

Be kind to yourself Runs with the eagle. Q.L