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Originally Posted by Petra5ed
I feel like he loves me, not in a sexual way, but that he cares about me. Maybe he would **** me too if I wasn't his client. Sometimes I wonder though.
I couldn't ask him because I totally shut down during that session. It was the start of a flashback, I didn't want to hear it. He has acknowledged before that my love is real. I'm not asking him to love me back or do anything, but now that I've taken the risk to tell him how I feel I just want reality acknowledged. If my love for him is a projection then all of my love for everyone I've ever loved is projection...
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I'm glad he at least has acknowledged your love is real. You don't have to know everything about a person in order to love that person. Heck, I don't think that's even possible anyway. You know enough about the man to know you feel love for him. That's fair, and that is real. In my book, love is love -- with or without projection or transference or anything else -- and it comes in all different forms and levels. I hope you get the clarification you need. And when you do, let me know because I'm curious myself!