Hey there,
I completely felt the same way - that she sounded almost manic. Having been diagnosed with hypomania myself, I would say it wasn't impossible. I'm not sure if she came to the country. If she did, she forgot about me as I thought she would. If she didn't, then she didn't. *shrug* It's honestly whatever. I think that due to this lesson, i've finally made peace with accepting her for who she is but choosing to value myself as well by inviting/allowing her into my emotional space.