wanted to add that if concerned when men do not want to wear a condom there are condoms for women too. like male condoms they come packaged for discreteness, like male condoms can be used for all types of intimacy. they also like male condoms come in a variety of sizes but usually an average size fits all unless the woman has given birth they might want to use the larger sizing. you get them in the same places you find male condoms,

there is a video on how to use them on the planned parenthood.org website.