I have a theory that if someone talks TO YOU about other people ( gossip and such), they will surely talk ABOUT YOU to other people. If that's the case, then they probably ARE telling off on each other and omitting their own feelings. But either way they don't sound like the best of people to be friends with. ( too much drama of you ask me.) They at the very least sound like instigators who enjoy stirring up conflict amongst "bro called" friends. I agree. Friends shouldn't treat each other like that!