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Originally Posted by LucyD
I know what you mean about someone being evasive but I have noticed that a lot of guys who use the dating site would rather have you text their cell or call them. They don't seem to like to say much at the site. Some sites will tell you if they cannot connect with you at the dating site that may be a red flag. He has written me again at the site and asked how I was feeling. I told him not good. I'm lying like crazy. He asked me previously if I wanted to stay out late with him. That would mean using my car probably and I don't know him well enough to let him in my car. Just seems to me like he is kind of nice but he doesn't respect boundaries very much. I guess I'll just have to lay down some boundaries for him and if he doesn't like it he's gone.
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I think there is something to that....I haven't used dating sites, but I have met people around the world on a pen pal site. Many people move over to email pretty quickly because they limit your messages per day if you aren't a premium member. In general this isn't an issue, but I have had guys tell me that they want to email because they don't want to disclose information on the site itself. These guys are indeed the ones to avoid. I learned that the hard way. I could have gotten the guy banned if he'd acted like he did on the site itself, but since he was being inappropriate after we'd moved over to messaging via email, the best I could do was block him. I reported him anyway, just in case there are other women whom he ends up harassing in the future.