I have had to distance myself from those who were once close because they just didn't get it. Some of them even tried to be helpful but couldn't see that they were in fact doing the opposite. Some of them are family.

Some of those however that are the most supportive to me today weren't always. I asked my son once to come to my support group with me and my father attended a group for family and support persons. I believe both had enlightening experiences. My daughter seems to have difficulties.