I did that in the past too, especially with my last ex. And for me that was it. I never wanted it AT ALL because there wasn't that kind of love. So there came the excuses and the no's.

I don't think that's in in Rhapsody's case, or with my boyfriend either.

I think in this case its just a "not in the mood right now" not an "I don't love you don't touch me" kind of thing.

At least thats what I hope.

Though that thought has crossed my mind with bf, those old insecurities and my old behavior.