Just the fact that you listen n care enough to try to help - helps - even if the advice does not help (which I am not saying it does not - just saying in the worst case scenario, if none of it ever helped) - you still help! I think you are giving very good advice, truth be told . I don't have a lot to keep my mind busy - but that is something I do try to do, I just messed up the other day when I tried to send a message to my dad on Veteran's Day.