I completely understand what you are saying here.
Even when I divorced my husband, I felt an unconditional love for him but I did not like him very much. He wasn't a bad guy for the most part, but he was very distant and hard to connect with. I still love him unconditionally as a human being and I respect him very much. But I just could not live his kind of life anymore. Such a complex emotion this love thing
Hugsss
sabby