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Originally Posted by rcat
Could it be that you have an emotional dependence on your girlfriend? That her being down makes you feel better about yourself - especially being responsive too and looking after her own emotional needs. Thus when she is doing better and doesn't need that extra emotional support, that rewarding need to be a helper is left with a gaping hole.
I don't mean to say that this is negative nor that you are suconciously using her. I mean that it is more of a symbiotic relationship.
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No I understand you. I feel like i'm worth something when she is down. like I have purpose. like it makes me feel good when I help her, because she says i'm the only one there for her and stuff like that and I feel special.