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Raynaadi said:
I don't think that's in in Rhapsody's case, or with my boyfriend either.

I think in this case its just a "not in the mood right now" not an "I don't love you don't touch me" kind of thing.

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You are correct in this case of the "No to Sex" thing - and I also think it is a little of male pride - needing to be in control kind of thing.