That makes sense to me. And, yeah, even when you can deal with things like that professionally, when it comes down to your own family and your own life, that's a whole 'nother story, isn't it? Because you and your feelings are right in the middle of it, even childhood feelings that still feel like they did then, when you didn't have the benefit of adult understanding or professional training to process them. Hang in there. You sound like you will be ok. Just try not to hold yourself responsible for more than your share.