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Originally Posted by unaluna
I guess i dont see a contradiction between what you write here and what skyscraper wrote. I dont worry too much about the always and nevers.
I would have gone a step further and said, what if when you go to pick him up at the airport and he acts like an absolute richard? Then i realized that most people wouldnt put up with carp like that. That that is abusive?
Its like - the FOO always made a HUGE deal if i said i couldnt make it home for a holiday. I realize now they were overcompensating, making ME feel bad, when actually they felt guilty about not wanting me there. I dont know how thats related but i think it is.
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In several years of therapy he has made mistakes. He's been late, he's forgotten an appointment, he's canceled, he once asked to cancel so someone else could fill my spot. He's dressed poorly. He's slipped up and said things that offended me. He's said he'd do things for me and forgot. He's left me hanging when I've texted asking for help because he was busy.... So no I haven't picked him up from the airport and him be rude and fart in my car, not sure I've even had that happen with my husband actually.