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Old Nov 14, 2015, 06:30 PM
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Originally Posted by Petra5ed View Post
In several years of therapy he has made mistakes. He's been late, he's forgotten an appointment, he's canceled, he once asked to cancel so someone else could fill my spot. He's dressed poorly. He's slipped up and said things that offended me. He's said he'd do things for me and forgot. He's left me hanging when I've texted asking for help because he was busy.... So no I haven't picked him up from the airport and him be rude and fart in my car, not sure I've even had that happen with my husband actually.
Okay, but those are ways he hasnt taken care of your needs. They are not ways you had to take care of his needs?

Eta - altho i get it - those would have been dealbreakers for me in the past because the other person wasnt good enough.