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Originally Posted by cobalttinor
Personally I have had enough with people trying to tell me I should be happy being alone. I think some people can do it, maybe, but I refuse to try and make myself something I am not. I am not meant to be alone and I am not satisfied with friends and family. But unfortunately I have yet to find someone who can accept me and appreciate me as I do them.
I think it's a valid option for some but not for others. We are not all meant to be the same. Maybe you were happy before because you had never experienced that feeling. Maybe you can go back, maybe you can't.
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I can understand where your coming from. I am not only not in a relationship but also I've been abandoned by my family. I was/am forced to be alone. I think what people are trying to say is that sometimes you don't have a choice. You don't have to like it. It is an experience being physically alone for the first time in 60 yrs. for me but it also is a learning opportunity.
I'm am somewhat starting to like it. Like anything else it has it's good and bad points.
At this point if I want to be with someone or need someone to be with me I'm going to have to do some leg work. I personally don't think we were meant to be alone , but a lot end up that way. I choose now to look back on all the good I did have and cherish it.
If worse comes to worse I just think of the saying , " you come in alone and you go out alone ".
