I hesitate to post about this, since it rehashes my recent history, but when I came here to PC three years ago, I was devastated. I had attempted a romantic relationship that ended in my being deeply hurt. First of all, I wanted the hurt to go away immediately...wishing there was some sort of magic pill that would make it disappear. Of course, there is no such remedy, and I set out on putting one foot in front of the other, trying to maintain a reasonably healthy life.

I just want to share here with all of you who may be hurt and/or devastated like I was, that there IS light at the end of the tunnel! There is no "quick fix" for it, but there are things one can do. I decided to immerse myself in pursuing my MA degree, something I had postponed too long. Education is a great validator and self-esteem builder. Also, due to the excellent feedback I received from members here on PC, my recovery was helped greatly!

As I look back on the past three years, I'm amazed at the process of healing. Please, those of you who may be hurt, don't go out and try to find a "Mr. Right" replacement while you are in the throes of hurt and recovery. It will only add ot your chaos.

Because of my age, 56, I doubt I will venture into another relationship...Maybe that's due to the repurcussions of having failed so miserably, or from the implications for disappointment in future endeavors. At present, though, it is just so good to be feeling well.

Patty