Your life isn't a movie; you need to be the best person you can be; we don't need to be drop dead gorgeous; some of the most handsome/beautiful people are not nice. I have been 3without sex for 12 years after a divorce; it is a major difficulty, but I am not about to have sex with someone I don't love; or let anyone use me. If you continue to compare yourself to others; you can never have a life. Just because someone is good looking does NOT mean they have perfect lives NO ONE has a perfect life. Do you have any goals? What would you do if you knew you couldn't fail? Once we take ourselves out of ourselves (stop focusing so much on ourselves), our lives can change; there are so many people who are lonely or suffering....soup kitchens, shelters, the elderly, etc. What Hollywood allows you to see....it is all fantasy..THe "beautiful" people obsess about how they aren't thin enough and have problems with low self-esteem, and a lot of probems; we just don't hear about it, and photographs? Airbrushed. Find a purpose in your life in helping someone else; you will see how your life can change.