Nicole:

No reason to not come back and post. Please do...there are alot of caring people here especially Rapunzel and Angela who just want to know you're safe. It can take alot out of a person just to post on these issues, because it can be so very triggering. I think it is generous of them to offer their advice even when it is something they struggle with everyday. Something we all struggle with everyday. I know it seems like the comments were insensitive, but really they are just rational and I think you're very angry right now and hopefully you will see that people really do care and mean you absolutely NO HARM.

please don't turn away. we all do care.
Kimberly.