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Originally Posted by Clementine K
I wish mine had said:
"You will probably fall in love with me, because this will be the only relationship you will ever have where you will feel unconditionally cared about and validated. I will trigger unmet needs in you, and you may forget this is a professional relationship. After you fall in love with me, you will eventually need to leave me, and I will never have any contact with you again. And by the way, even though you will fall in love with me, I will never fall in love with you because you are just my job. I see and have seen hundreds of others, so our relationship is not special. I may not remember you after termination."
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Wow that is my experience almost to the letter. Cruelest thing I ever went through. It would better not to have ever started the process at all, because I only feel the lack and deprivation more now. Sorry you went through this too.