I was married for 10 years and after divorce I found that I struggled with not only being alone but also lonely. I taught myself to be happy by learning new skills, went back to school and met like minded people. We got a dog and I rediscovered my passion for gardening. Than one day I was having tea outside by my fire pit did I realize how truly happy and content I was with just being myself. Only than did the happiness shined through and I began attracting people to me. It's natural to want to be with someone who is happy from within. So find that happiness, you deserve it.