Thank you. Boundaries are something I struggle with as I grew up in a family without them. I have tried to learn that ever since. So that makes me an amateur

I guess a friend could say the most horrible things to me and abuse me verbally and I would have to figure out if I am being too sensitive first. So the reality check was really important for me here
OK - so now, certain friendships redefined, reevaluation later - sounds good to me. I can do that