Fuzzy,this is hard to do, I know... ignore them! Try to ignore them...
I have to keep reminding myself that my value is not defined by others. Ever.
Your value is NOT defined by others. Ever!
I don't know what a POS is... I hope to look it up.
Who is justified in Jesus's eyes, Fuzzy? You are.
Most professionals in my life often times think they know more about me than I do and I know I'm just a job to them, usually a very annoying part of their job.
They only USE WHAT(???) when they THINK they are justified. They only think they are justified, Fuzzy. They are contemptible.
Please try not to give them the satisfaction of perceiving yourself the way they want you to.
All of this, I know, is much more easily said than done.
You remember that you mean so much more than that to many people here too, as well as to Jesus. (I bring up Jesus because I see that you are a member of at least one Christian group; I mean know offence by it if you are not Christian. Either way, Jesus is on the side of justice, mercy, compassion, and grace.)