It is amazing how we can construe things as abandonment.
My husband has non alcoholic cirrhosis related to fatty liver.
He drinks coca cola like crazy. I read that this actually ferments in the stomach
and is basically like drinking alcohol for these people and actually all people possibly.
He is totally addicted to this stuff and the idea of stopping is really out of his realm of possibility right now.
So in my mind he doesn't care about his family enough to quit...doesn't care if he dies and leaves me..ie abandonment
Over Soda....