I dreamt that my ex-husband was on top of me, and I was clutching his arm, on which, my now husband's name was tattooed. That is just totally disturbing. I often have dreams of my ex husband even though I haven't seen him in close to 18 years. But this dream just wasn't necessary. I WISH there was a way I could get him out of my dreams. I don't even think of him when I'm awake. Frankly, it revolts me and I always wake, totally relieved that my husband is beside me.