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Old Nov 17, 2015, 05:05 AM
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Music is a good idea. Listening to sad music will make you more sad. Listening to happy music will raise your mood.

If what you want is really to move on, I recommend writing goodbye letters. Pour your heart and soul out and begin the process of grieving. Remember loss of a relationship is very similar to death. You can use that fact to gain insight.

I personally find a place I can be alone and write my letters. Then I burn or otherwise destroy them without ever sending them. That way my brain feels like what needed to be conveyed has already been conveyed and I can move on. The brain needs to feel like it is done so that you can start thinking of something new.

That's what's been helpful to me at least.
Thanks for this!
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