Well, mostly I would just like him to move a lot of things that don't belong where they are. I don't feel I have the right to tell him to get rid of things that are his, but I do not think that car parts, for instance, belong in a kitchen or a living room. The problem is that it doesn't bother him at all, and he doesn't understand why it bothers me. All these years I have been embarrassed to have people over, and he doesn't understand that either.