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Originally Posted by arabianhorselover
Does anyone else here feel like their concerns/complaints are not taken seriously due to their history of depression and anxiety? I am just so tired of feeling guilty and apologizing all the time for being who I am. I have not always been easy to deal with, but neither has my husband. He may not suffer from the things that I do, but he is stubborn, has way too much stuff in our house, and has a very difficult time apologizing or taking the blame for anything. Does anyone else feel this way?
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I went through relatively the same situation. I have , lets say " issues " that I have to deal with on a daily basis. My ex-wife did not have a clue as to what I go through everyday.
Because of this she blames me for all the problems in the marriage.
Her shortcomings and character defects never are looked at because I'm always accused of being in the wrong. Like you I got sick and tired of always apologizing and feeling guilty for something. It got to the point where I could not live with miss perfect anymore and had to throw away almost a 40 yr. marriage.
Don't wait as long as I did to do something about it. Are you in therapy yourself ?
Would he be willing to go to marriage counseling ?
Do what's best for you or you could be in for a lot of pain.