My boyfriend and I spent a year apart, on opposite sides of the country. We talked on the phone every day, usually falling asleep together at night. Long distance relationships suck. They take a lot of work. There were many days I would cry because I missed him so much, and many more I would think about breaking up with him because it was too hard. In fact, there was a month where we did break up and I started going on dates with other people, but all I could do was compare them to him. Even from 3000 miles away, he was a better man for me than anybody else I met.
If you are going to continue the relationship you have to decide 2 things:
1. Is this man worth waiting for?
2. In the future will one or both of you be willing to relocate so that you may live together permanently?
If those two questions aren't a yes, it might be better to just rip the bandaid off now.
Good luck either way.
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BUTTERFLY
26/Female/Canada
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