I agree with Chipper Monkey. I also would buy the book COPENDEND NO MORE By Melody Beattie and give it to your friend to read. And one for yourself to read. Strong people feel they want to do and help others. There is a line that one can cross trying to do too much, you cross a boundary line and end up draining your own self in the process which is not good. Hard Love is hard to give but sometimes necessary in situations like this. And mostly you can turn her over into Gods hands and continue to pray for her. tc