I don't think crying is weak at all. I think it's a very strong thing to do, actually.
I think when I was younger I had a problem with other people crying because I associated it with feeling out of control or something dangerous.
As an adult, having met very strong people who are in touch with their emotions, I have great respect for people who cry more freely. I consider it almost a super power. One that I don't really have myself.
It takes a lot for me to break that dam and when I do, it's all out ugly.
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