I think you might want to address your need for arguing. And what's with yelling and screaming. Honestly rather than addressing why and how he is nice why not focus on your need for drama and arguments? Are you in therapy?

Interesting that you thank people for their posts but then post exactly same question again almost like you never even read posts you thanked. I am not sure how to help you with all this. So far every post you has was complaining about your husband even before you two got married. Unless you aren't telling us something, he seems like a nice man to me. I'll leave it at that

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