Hi, the gift I'm going to get my T for the holidays can be personalized. Would you personalized it with her name, or with something related to psychology - like the word "psychology" or "mind" etc.

Or would you personalized it with a religious symbol (cross etc).

The reason I'm thinking religious symbol because I get her a gift every year and every January when I come back to her office, she displays it. Truth is, I don't want her to display my gifts in her office. I want her to display it at her house or elsewhere instead. I don't want her other patients know I'm giving her a gift. Her displaying my gift in her office, they will know she's getting a gift from someone.

By the way, the gift is a book where they fold the pages into a word, name, or symbol. I thought it was different. Unique. But not sure the best way to personalized it. Thanks for your input!