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Originally Posted by arabianhorselover
I posted this thread this morning when I was upset. I did not really word it properly. Understand that I have been dealing with a lot of depression and anxiety, and that I have very poor self esteem. Throughout my marriage I have taken a lot of things the wrong way. My feelings are hurt very easily. There are some things that I have been upset with my husband about over the years, but they are not the types of things that should break up a marriage. He does not expect me to change; I have always expected myself to change.
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Well now the real truth is coming out FINALLY !
1. As far as the car parts, and all the extra stuff you have now, and the extra space you need, that sounds like you just don't have enough space for everything. So stuff gets tossed around all over the place.
2. What your husband does and doesn't do annoys you but you still think he's a great guy.
3. So what are we left with . The real issue which is YOU. You openly admit that you are in
depression , that you have anxiety , that you have VERY poor self esteem , that your feelings are hurt very easily , and that you have always expected yourself to change.
4. Reading between the lines it appears you are expressing that your not happy , you have a lot of personal issues going on right now and that you need some kind of help.
If I'm right I hope you go and get the help or support that you need for yourself. Then worry about the car parts. I'm not trying to be funny here, I'm serious.
I know what's it's like to feel the way you do. I'm not a professional so I can't make a diagnosis but your symptoms sound very familiar to a certain condition I know much about.
Best to you,
CB