I fear all of those things listed, but, most of all I fear being a bother to my T. This whole allowing myself to be needy and attached to another adult is a whole new experience to me so I don't always "get it." I think if I found out I were a bother to my T that would cause humiliation, rejection, and feelings of not being cared for so that would be the ultimate fear for me. I think I would feel the same with others in that situation. Good poll.