great question...There is one side of me that wants to say I do not fear anything about T. Intellectually I know she always acts in my best interest, is there for me whenever I need her, she will never judge me other than knowing how strong I am and how much I have overcome, etc, etc. However, there is also that psychological part of me always fears being hurt and abandoned by people...also being a bother and too needy for her. She has repeatedly told me over the years none of this is true and that I am never a bother and if she were to have issues she would tell me. I have this issue with everybody in my life even with hubby at times after 21 years of marriage.