OMG, BNLsMOM! That has to be SO discouraging! I don't know what would be in my medical record. I presume there is something since I've been involuntarily committed to psychiatric wards twice in the past. However, at the same time, none of the pdoc's or therapists I've ever seen have ever actually given me a formal diagnosis. I think they just presume that it is depression & anxiety, although I'm not sure that is accurate. In some ways, I've kind-of felt cheated by not having been given a formal diagnosis. But, then, on the other hand sometimes I think maybe it's a good thing. That way there's no "peg" medical & mental health professionals can hang their hats on, so to speak.
Good luck with your new T!