In the class, I feel like I am just spoken to when I am right there and otherwise I am not an integral part of a circle, people don't think about me when they are making any plans or when they want to take part in some competitions etc. I am always either taken as a second/third/fourth/etc choice if at all and that is only when I ask for it. I feel like such a third wheel. What should I do? I feel like I am not a part of any group. I'm a part but I'm just there. I'm not important and I know it's stupid but you like it when people include you in their plans themselves right? I feel like I'm negligible and nobody would really notice or care if I disappeared. Really pulls down my self-esteem.