I'm considering separating from my husband of almost 10 years. We have 2 very young children at home and I'm a stay at home mom. Wondering if anyone out there has gone thru this in a similar situation?
Here are my reasons-
-he cheated on me (I only found texts) while pregnant with my first child
-he does not do any household chores
-he is very ego centric and narcissistic
-he has blocked me out completely of all forms of intimacy
-we have very different personalities and horrible communication

I feel more like a hired maid and nanny then his wife. I'm well educated and can find work but enjoy spending time with my 2 kids and I'm not sure if I should wait until they are older to leave or do it now. I'm feeling very guilty.