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I guess I should tell him that. But how?

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well, why don't you just begin the session by saying something like "Remember last week when I was telling you about qualities in people that i was attracted to? Well, you responded by saying, blah blah blah." "When you said that it made me feel that I was being rejected or chastised, or blah blah blah [however you felt]" "I think that you thought I was stating a personal attraction to you/secretary but I was just trying to let you know how I felt in the moment." "I have been really upset all week and hope we can work through this."

Or something along those lines. Another thing you can do is write him a letter and mail it so it gets there before you do. I did that once and it turned out to be a really helpful way of working through a relationship difficulty I was having with T. In fact, it was something similar when I needed support from him and he didn't give it, but responded in a way that made me feel bad. Boy, I really let him have it.

When is your next session?